LBC: My Plans on Executing My Top Three New Year’s Resolutions

For this week’s Lolita Blog Carnival topic, participating bloggers were asked to create a plan to follow through with our New Year’s resolutions in 2018. However, I don’t exactly have  resolutions, more like  general goals that I’d like to work towards all the time. These are:

  • Be more active online
  • Attend more meets
  • Continue building a “complete” wardrobe

My goals are addmittedly somewhat vague, so I decided to participate in this week’s prompt partially to give more thought to what I want and how to accomplish it. Because of this topic, I actually sat down and though about each item, and I think I’ve come up with an actionable plan that I can stick to in the new year!

1. Be More Active Online

I was awful about this in 2017! I actually lost my passwords for both this blog and the associated email and only recently got around to resetting them and getting back in. So I need to get back into the habit of updating regularly. I plan to redevelop that habit by *actually* completing the Lolita 52 challenge in 2018 and posting to my Instagram at least twice per week. Beyond that though, I want to use these platforms for their intended purpose: interacting with other users! So I’ve decided to make a conscious effort to comment on other users content. The last week I’ve been leaving a minimum of 5 comments per day spanning several social media platforms and it’s not as scary as I thought it’d be. When I see something especially nice I just leave a comment. Simple. I hope to continue this indefinitely.

2. Attend More Meets

I did manage to go to about 10-12 meets in 2017, which isn’t too bad. But it didn’t seem like enough (is it ever?). I gave it some thought  and decided I’d aim to attend an average of 1.5 meets per month this year, so a minimum of 18. There are a few upcoming events in my comm that I’m looking forward to, and two that I’ve RSVPd “yes” to, so I’m off to a good start! Just hoping I can keep it up.

3. Continue Building a Complete Wardrobe

This is probably the least concrete item on my list, as I’m really not sure what will help me to feel that my wardrobe is complete. After considering it, I decided to start by being able to create at least 3 different coords for each main piece I own. If I’m not able to create 3, I’ll think about pieces I can add that might help with multiple coords and main pieces, or else consider selling the main (noooooo!!!). I’d also like to post the coords I make here, so keep an eye out for a new series of posts! Come to think, that’ll also tie into my first goal…

This week’s participants:

Stardust

The Bloody Tea Party

Pastel Peggy

Gota de Baunilha

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LBC: Creating a Cohesive Coord

This week’s Lolita Blog Carnival challenge actually tied in well to a post I had been writing already, so it was just the push I needed to get my butt in gear and finish it by the deadline: today! I’m sorry that it’s so long, but I felt I had a lot to say on the subject and just couldn’t bring myself to cut any more than this (^^)

Cohesion is an essential part of Lolita fashion. A coordinate without cohesion isn’t, well, coordinated. Luckily, I feel that achieving balance and harmony is more science than art, so it can be explained. There are three major elements to unifying a coord: color, style, and theme. These three elements, when working together, bring pieces together to create cohesive outfits.

Color

The easiest way to unify a coordinate is through color, especially with regard to matching both shade and pigment and to balancing the colors throughout the coord. In the above example, the mismatched reds give a disorganized effect which is emphasized when they are all presented in a solid block of color on the torso. Additionally, the colors in the first coord are out of balance. The accent color, red, is only found in the top half of the coord while the lower half is entirely ivory. Luckily, color balance is usually easily achieved with just a few tweaks and added accessories. Think of the coord as being divided into five sections: the skirt, the upper torso, the head, the legs/feet, and the arms/hands. A fairly foolproof method of achieving balance is to choose one to three colors from the skirt, then to ensure that those colors are represented in roughly equal proportions in the other four sections.

To rectify these issues, I started by removing the most clearly mismatched reds; the cutsew and the headbow. I replaced them with neutrals to break up the remaining red blocks thus deemphasizing the difference between them. Next, I designated an accent color based on my availabile accessories. I chose chocolate brown in this case. The headbow I had chosen already had a fair amount of brown on it, so my color was already represented on the skirt and head. I switched the shoes out for brown ones to add my accent to the leg area, then I chose a matching chocolate necklace and ring from ShinyStuffCreations to cover the upper torso and hands, respectively. The result is a much more unified and balanced coord.

Style

Every Lolita item will be (at least) one of the major styles: Gothic, Classic, and/or Sweet. One of the most frequent beginner mistakes that I encounter is incorporating an item of the wrong style into a coord simply because the colors match. It is essential to a coord’s cohesion that each item match the overall style. Personally, I find it especially jarring when one very Sweet piece is incorporated into a Gothic or Classic coord, like black tea party shoes paired with a mature Gothic JSK, for example. I find that the more juvenile Sweet item throws off the elegance of the rest of the pieces involved. In the coordinate above, I illustrated this by pairing it with a very Sweet Angelic Pretty purse in a black color way. The result is disjointed, despite the black working well with the coord’s other colors. By replacing the bag with a Classic-styled one, the coord becomes unified.

Theme

An outfit’s theme can manifest in several ways. Most obviously there are themes which are so frequently seen in Lolita that some people classify them as their own styles (sailor or princess, for example). It’s easy to understand why a crown could work for a hime coord but might seem out of place in a sailor coord even if it matched in color and style. However, there are more subtle variations on this scenario. In my example above, I’ve used the Chocomint star clip that everyone seems to own and paired it with two Sweet JSKs; Blooming Garden and the Ticking Clock. I wouldn’t recommend pairing the clip with Blooming Garden even if the coord incorporated gold accents because a night star seems strange when paired with the dress, which invokes images of a Rose garden on a Spring afternoon. On the other hand, it pairs perfectly with the Ticking Clock, which already has star details throughout the dress. In fact, considering these sorts of repeating motifs when accessorizing can work wonders in unifying a coord, especially if it uses more than one accent color. When working with a printed main piece, consider the theme of that print. Often the theme can be repeated in lace (lace on Lolita blouses usually contains motifs like stars or flowers), headwear, and jewelry. Continuing the same pattern in many places throughout the coord can add subtle dimension and is excellent for this detail-oriented fashion.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on other ways to create cohesion and balance in a coordinate, since I’m sure I’ve missed at least a few things. Feel free to comment below, and read through this week’s other posts for different perspectives!

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Lolita Blog Carnival: 1 Main Piece, 2 Drastically Different Looks

I have a relatively small wardrobe and re-wear pieces frequently, so this week’s Lolita Blog Carnival topic is right up my alley. I chose to work with Innocent World’s Fairy Tale JSK. It’s one of my favorite pieces because of its versatility.

First, I put together a simple Sweet coord by pulling the red from the print and covering the more Classic-looking bodice. In retrospect, I should have also removed the brown waist tie.

I didn’t feel that this needed much in the way of accessories since it’s meant to be somewhat wearable, but a red or gold ring would really help to pull this look together.

Coord rundown:

KC – Angelic Pretty

Hoodie and tights – Baby, the Stars Shine Bright

Shoes – Bodyline
The second coordinate is a slightly more elaborate Classic look. For this coord, I pulled the brown from the print and added some pearl accents.

I would also wear a set of fake pearl earrings and a ring, but left them out as they were difficult to make out in the photo. There are also small pearl beads on the headdress.

I wanted to maintain the whimsey of the fairytale print, which is why I chose the UTK socks instead of more Classic legwear. I feel that the visible lace balances the lace in the top half of the coord, and that the slight sweetness of these socks helps to keep the overall look from being too mature for the print.

Coord rundown:

Headdress, bolero, and UTKs – Innocent World

Shoes and accessories – off brand

Other participants in this week’s LBC:

Poppy Noir

Vanilla Bear

Cupcakes and Unicorns

Queen and Commander

Gravelvet

Bloody Tea Party